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Post by tomass on Mar 28, 2015 13:23:05 GMT -5
Man I could go on forever posting these videos but this is enough for now. Why does it seem like those fraternity douchebags a few weeks ago got more national media attention for singing racist songs than all of these stories combined? Oh.. Because they did..
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Post by joey78 on Mar 30, 2015 3:59:08 GMT -5
i dont know man, i hate labelling a race but this point it would appear to be a lot safer to stay in an area where there are fewer/no blacks
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Post by gwb on Mar 31, 2015 6:59:37 GMT -5
It's ironic that after blacks gained freedom from slavery, whites lost the freedom to speak truthfully about how many blacks behave. It seems only blacks have the right to publically criticize how other blacks behave, and even they are obstracized for doing it. The media (except FoxNews) NEVER speaks out about black-on-white crime, but will jump in a second on white police-on-black thug incidents (even when police are correct) and harp for weeks (or months) about "racism" and the "hurt" of the black community (yes CNN, I mean you).
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Post by tomass on Apr 24, 2015 10:24:14 GMT -5
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Post by Air-Roo on Apr 24, 2015 12:29:55 GMT -5
tomass, you are a bigot.
Yes, once in a while black people beat up and/or kill white people. I agree that it's very bad when this happens - no debate there. But, generally, we all get very angry and we feel very, very bad for the white victims when this happens (and, we report it in the news - as evidenced by the videos you've posted from news outlets). After all, white people are valuable, and their lives matter! It's newsworthy and it's anger-worthy when a white person is a victim of a violent crime, because white people count.
But we also need to talk about how black victims of violence (yeah, and that violence is often perpetrated by whites) far outnumber the white victims. Nobody gets up-in-arms when a black person is the victim of a violent crime, or a victim of police violence/harassment, or a victim of systematic social oppression. Nobody reports it in the news, and nobody cares --- because black people don't matter. They're essentially throwaways.
Perhaps instead of complaining about the inherent violence and savagery of blacks, we might consider the reasons why blacks are generally poor and angry? We might consider all the ways in which this country has a long history of shitting on black folks. Has it ever even occurred to you that blacks might have reasons to be angry?
If you were a black man who was working hard to better himself, how would you honestly feel about society's general attitude towards blacks? How would you feel if you were born into a world that told you that you were inherently violent and savage just by virtue of having been born? How might that attitude affect your life? Would it be easier or harder for you to find work, housing, etc?
We seem to be coming from an assumption that black people are "inherently" inferior to whites, and this assumption is a result of blindness to all the privileges we get to enjoy simply as a result of having white skin. As white people, we simply don't have all these stereotypes and assumptions working against us -- that's the reality that you're all ignoring, here.
I very much agree that it's safer to stay away from black neighborhoods, but this sure isn't because "black people are inherently more violent than us peace-loving whites." White folks bear just as much responsibility for the fact that black neighborhoods are cesspools of poverty and crime. Crime tends to go hand-in-hand with poverty regardless of race. The harsh truth is that white folks have been shitting on black folks for a few centuries now, and we've created a world where blacks are forced into a poverty-stricken underclass. We make it next-to-impossible for them to dig themselves out of that poverty, or to pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Violence and crime in black communities is everybody's fault.
"Cracker" is such a needlessly dehumanizing thing to call another human being. (Oh! Notice how there aren't any similarly derogatory names for whites! Perhaps I could call you "Honky" or whatever, but it doesn't really carry the same sting for you, does it? And, yet, we still blindly imagine that White Privilege doesn't really exist, even though it plainly does. Try putting yourself into another person's shoes and try seeing the world through eyes other than your own for a while -- trust me, it really will help you to stop being so racist. )
I don't know why I still come here just to torture myself with the overflowing mountains of stupid - perhaps I'm a masochist, or whatever. Perhaps I imagine in vain that I can help you to become better human beings. But, then again, this is a forum where we've actually needed to have discussions like "Why A Beautiful Woman's Body Is Not Yours To Admire" and "Yes, Folks, white privilege actually is a real thing." So, it's pretty obvious that having respect for the basic humanity of our fellow human beings isn't really a strong point for many of the folks here at AF2. Having some ability to step outside of your own little bubble and to see the world through another person's eyes is a really big pre-requisite for being a decent person -- this skill is known as "compassion," and it would help you to develop it a bit.
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Post by tomass on Apr 24, 2015 13:34:43 GMT -5
But we also need to talk about how black victims of violence (yeah, and that violence is often perpetrated by whites) far outnumber the white victims. Nobody gets up-in-arms when a black person is the victim of a violent crime, or a victim of police violence/harassment, or a victim of systematic social oppression. Nobody reports it in the news, and nobody cares --- because black people don't matter. They're essentially throwaways. "Yes, once in a while black people beat up and/or kill white people." Once in awhile??? Are you fucking kidding me? Get your facts straight. There is far more black on white crime than white on black. It isn't even close... Especially considering how many more white people there are in this country. You just don't see it blasted all over the national media for fear of being labeled racist or to protect certain agenda's. "Nobody reports it and nobody cares" I think you have it all pretty backwards. Whenever there is a potential hate crime against blacks it is everywhere all over EVERY national media outlet there is. When it is against Whites all you hear are fucking crickets or you might see it on some local news outlet as in some of those clips. "Nobody gets up-in-arms when a black person is the victim of a violent crime, or a victim of police violence/harassment" Umm have you been watching the news the last two years? People are about as up in arms as you can get about it. You know what they aren't up in arms about? The fact that Police have killed twice as many white people over the last decade. I am pretty sure that they all didn't deserve to die but you don't see any riots, looting and protests. If you want to break it down to percentages I realize that there are far more white people so the percentage of fatal shooting by police per race is higher for black people. There are also far more black people causing violent crimes and murdering people. Hell, black on black murders trump them all. No one is up in arms about that either. That is what pisses me off. You don't hear shit about any of it unless it is white on black. Except in your world apparently. That is my gripe. You really think if Michael Brown was White, you would have heard a peep about it? No and rightfully so, because he was a thug that got himself into a bad situation which ultimately caused him his life. I am not racist as you call me now and as you did with your last user account. I almost married a black woman who I am still friends with. I have friends who are black who I can have these conversations with. They might not all agree with me but none of them have called me a racist. As of now, I am also endorsing a Black man to be the next president as well. I don't hate black people, I just hate assholes in general.. Like you..
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Post by bartman2001 on Apr 24, 2015 13:44:17 GMT -5
Let’s see some numbers to back this up. And within’ those numbers give us the total and within that total separate how many black victims come at the hands of whites and how many come at the hands of black on black violence. This way we can draw some more accurate conclusions. One can easily dismiss your argument as a result of someone whose conclusions are based on the news stories they see that are overwhelmingly disproportionate showing white on black violence.
And I’m not buying any of that social disadvantage crap you preach I’m not at fault because I’m white for any black persons “poverty or situation’ same as I’m not for any white persons misery for that matter. No I don’t agree with everything others have posted in this and other threads of this nature but I don’t have any issues with a lot of their indignation either. I’ve a black brother in law and he and my sister have three interracial kids. He’s busted his ass of for them and they’ve been raised well as a result. Another reason I don’t buy much of your argument I’ve seen firsthand that anyone can succeed in spite of race color or creed. Oh and he didn’t have it easy as a kid his father bolted on his mother when he was a kid and she like him with his kids, busted her ass to raise him well instead of using it as an excuse. So please come off you pulpit somewhat I don’t need you to “Teach my how to be a better human being” I do love how liberals claim to care about everyone but seem to me they’re more interesting in telling people their right (when they’re usually not btw).
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Post by AeroCooper on Apr 24, 2015 15:53:06 GMT -5
Nobody gets up-in-arms when a black person is the victim of a violent crime, or a victim of police violence/harassment, or a victim of systematic social oppression. Nobody reports it in the news, and nobody cares --- because black people don't matter. They're essentially throwaways. This is just wrong. It seems every week we see another story about a black person who was wronged by the (white) police. Has it ever even occurred to you that blacks might have reasons to be angry? I agree, they do have many legitimate reasons to be angry. They do not, however, have legitimate reasons to randomly attack whites, as seen in the school kids video posted here recently, for example. As white people, we simply don't have all these stereotypes and assumptions working against us -- that's the reality that you're all ignoring, here. There are assumptions about every race. I don't know about you, but I definitely feel the assumption that I am racist when I am around blacks, or even when I point out my personal pros and cons of a discussion on an internet forum, for example.I very much agree that it's safer to stay away from black neighborhoods, but this sure isn't because "black people are inherently more violent than us peace-loving whites." Agreed, on both parts of that sentence. Crime tends to go hand-in-hand with poverty regardless of race. I agree with this in general, but I wouldn't say that all poor people are criminals, any more than I would say that all blacks are violent/criminals. The harsh truth is that white folks have been shitting on black folks for a few centuries now, and we've created a world where blacks are forced into a poverty-stricken underclass. We make it next-to-impossible for them to dig themselves out of that poverty, or to pull themselves up by their bootstraps. I'm not so sure about this. I think it was true at one time, and probably still is true in certain regions. But on the other hand, many times being a race other than white or being female is a ticket to the top of the resume stack. Everyone is so afraid of being labeled a bigot or a racist that they will sometimes go out of their way to disprove it. Reverse racism? Yeah, but it still counts. And given our collective history, I'm basically ok with this. Let things even out for awhile and hopefully someday when everyone has had a fair chance to prove themselves none of this will matter. Violence and crime in black communities is everybody's fault.Um, no, I don't think so. Everyone has their own choices to make in life. You can play the victim or you can prove those who say you are not worthy wrong.
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Post by tomass on Apr 24, 2015 16:50:47 GMT -5
Yes, once in a while black people beat up and/or kill white people. I agree that it's very bad when this happens - no debate there. But, generally, we all get very angry and we feel very, very bad for the white victims when this happens (and, we report it in the news - as evidenced by the videos you've posted from news outlets). After all, white people are valuable, and their lives matter! It's newsworthy and it's anger-worthy when a white person is a victim of a violent crime, because white people count. Again, I don't know what world you live in but from my daily experiences it is quite the opposite. That is the reason for my posts. I am not posting to try and demonize black people. I am doing it as a direct response to media's overwhelming lop sided reporting.
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Post by Air-Roo on Apr 24, 2015 22:48:48 GMT -5
Yes, I am aware that your daily experiences are the opposite. Since you are white, that is expected.
But, you need to realize that your daily experiences are not the be-all and end-all objective judge of what is real. Your daily experiences are skewed by the very fact that you are white.
You need to step out of your own daily experiences, put yourself into another person's shoes, and imagine what their daily experiences might be like. It's possible that somebody else's daily experiences are very different from yours.
This is the definition of what "white privilege" means. By living in a white world, as a white person, there is a large amount of reality that lies entirely outside of your experience. Of course you don't see these things in your world, because your world is sheltered from those things. Having white skin allows us to live inside of a protected bubble where we don't have to experience, or see, or have any contact with or knowledge of the shit that gets heaped onto black people daily.
"Not having to think about race" is a privilege that only white people get to enjoy -- non-whites need to think about their race on an unrelentingly constant basis.
Perhaps you aren't trying to demonize black people, but you seem to imagine that your personal experiences set some sort of objective standard for all human experiences. It doesn't seem to occur to you that your personal experiences might be limited in any way. Because black people experience life differently from the way that you experience it, I think you assume that it means that their experiences are "less real" than yours, or that they must be "making shit up" or "blowing it out of proportion" or "playing the victim." Really, it just means that your whiteness shelters you from having to see and experience many disturbing things.
Oh, I assure you, my facts are straight, m'dear. It seems that you're the one spouting off poorly-researched nonsense. Do better research.
Yes, I'm aware of the recent black crime victims in the news. However, they represent a tiny portion of blacks who have been violently victimized by whites. Once again, you need to do your research and get your facts straight. Unlike you, I actually have done real research. The fact that your poorly-researched opinion disagrees with my well-researched one doesn't mean that I'm wrong. It only means that you've leapt to a conclusion without putting in the effort to make sure that your opinion has a factual basis.
Yes you are. Every word you've written on this topic has been overflowing with racism. Congrats for almost marrying a black woman, but this doesn't make you not-a-racist! It only means that this particular black woman dodged a bullet. If you want me to believe that you're "not a racist," then stop talking like a racist. Non-racists don't refer to people as "crackers," and non-racists don't believe that blacks are innately violent and inferior. If you want me to stop calling you a racist, then show me some respect for black peoples' humanity.
"blacks are all a bunch of savages who are innately violent -- but hey, I'm not racist at all!" simply does not compute. Sorry.
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Post by Air-Roo on Apr 24, 2015 23:11:06 GMT -5
Yes, actually, you are.
I know that it's probably important to you to think of yourself as "a good guy," and it makes you uncomfortable to think of all the ways in which you cause hardship for others without even realizing it or actively doing anything. But, reality is, you have the luxury of not having to think about the disadvantages that other people face --- and that's a problem.
I'm sorry that you feel that social disadvantages are "crap." (and you feel that I'm "preaching!" How telling.) But, merely stating your opinion that "social disadvantage is crap" doesn't actually make it a meritless idea. Like it or not, the stone-cold fact of the matter is that black people do actually have many social disadvantages -- regardless of whether you wish to acknowledge it, or not. You can choose to turn a blind eye to this reality and continue to perpetrate those disadvantages, or you can choose to acknowledge it and solve the problem. But, it's really your choice. By turning a blind eye to social disadvantages that do in fact exist, it means that responsibility for those disadvantages does fall on your shoulders.
No doubt, there are certainly many black people who do succeed in life -- and I know many of them myself. But, they had to work much harder for their success than you had to because they faced disadvantages that you didn't have to face. In daily life, even successful and upstanding blacks need to deal with things like being followed in stores (shoplifter for sure), and being pulled over by police for no reason at all. Have you ever really sat down and spoken to your brother-in-law about his thoughts?
Do you realize how what you're implying here (that social disadvantage is a total crock of shit because black people are naturally lazy and stupid) is a ridiculously racist viewpoint to hold?
Asian people tend to be very successful. Asians send their kids to Ivy League schools, and they become doctors and engineers. But, it doesn't change the reality that whites have enormous social privileges over Asians, or that Asian folks endure hardships that white folks never have to see, think about, or experience. Nobody cares much when Asian folks go missing or get murdered, either. Asians are often quite angry with whites, too. White folks need to wake up to this.
And -- oh, I'm absolutely able to back my opinion up with numbers. Unlike you, I don't spout opinions that I haven't fully researched. I can provide you with full numbers and a full breakdown if you would like, but I have to wonder why you're incapable of doing this research by yourself? You wouldn't be capable of providing the numbers to support your opinion, because crime stats simply don't support that. But, again, why were you incapable of doing this research before expressing an incorrect opinion?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 25, 2015 4:26:28 GMT -5
Yes, actually, you are. I know that it's probably important to you to think of yourself as "a good guy," and it makes you uncomfortable to think of all the ways in which you cause hardship for others without even realizing it or actively doing anything. But, reality is, you have the luxury of not having to think about the disadvantages that other people face --- and that's a problem. I'm sorry that you feel that social disadvantages are "crap." (and you feel that I'm "preaching!" How telling.) But, merely stating your opinion that "social disadvantage is crap" doesn't actually make it a meritless idea. Like it or not, the stone-cold fact of the matter is that black people do actually have many social disadvantages -- regardless of whether you wish to acknowledge it, or not. You can choose to turn a blind eye to this reality and continue to perpetrate those disadvantages, or you can choose to acknowledge it and solve the problem. But, it's really your choice. By turning a blind eye to social disadvantages that do in fact exist, it means that responsibility for those disadvantages does fall on your shoulders. No doubt, there are certainly many black people who do succeed in life -- and I know many of them myself. But, they had to work much harder for their success than you had to because they faced disadvantages that you didn't have to face. In daily life, even successful and upstanding blacks need to deal with things like being followed in stores (shoplifter for sure), and being pulled over by police for no reason at all. Have you ever really sat down and spoken to your brother-in-law about his thoughts? Do you realize how what you're implying here (that social disadvantage is a total crock of shit because black people are naturally lazy and stupid) is a ridiculously racist viewpoint to hold? Asian people tend to be very successful. Asians send their kids to Ivy League schools, and they become doctors and engineers. But, it doesn't change the reality that whites have enormous social privileges over Asians, or that Asian folks endure hardships that white folks never have to see, think about, or experience. Nobody cares much when Asian folks go missing or get murdered, either. Asians are often quite angry with whites, too. White folks need to wake up to this. And -- oh, I'm absolutely able to back my opinion up with numbers. Unlike you, I don't spout opinions that I haven't fully researched. I can provide you with full numbers and a full breakdown if you would like, but I have to wonder why you're incapable of doing this research by yourself? You wouldn't be capable of providing the numbers to support your opinion, because crime stats simply don't support that. But, again, why were you incapable of doing this research before expressing an incorrect opinion? I would love to see your numbers because I have never heard so much shit. Whether tomass is racist or not it can not be learned from the post in this thread. I experienced an immense amount of reverse racism in the past couple years. It does not make me hate all black people. I see tomass' post to do more with a president and attorney general prejudging and condemning the officer in Ferguson and what that means...........it allows shit to go on unpunished like the actions in the videos he posted. That is, if a white person and black person are in a situation that goes bad its assumed to be about race and on a Gulf Stream flies in Jesse and Al to stir the pot. Now the president joined in?!?!?!?! Its insane. I would be interested in your numbers. Numbers to disprove what is a "feeling" from first hand experiences and watching news in this country. I believe your bubble only exist for high income people. Having white skin provides no bubble in this country. To say tomass' just can't know the truth because he is white is just a lazy comeback in an argument. Most people are not that out of touch with the world around them and therefore they see bad behavior of others.....white, black, asian.......dog, cat. Mostly cats now that I think about it.
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Post by AeroCooper on Apr 25, 2015 7:29:55 GMT -5
I was right there with you up until this.
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Post by tomass on Apr 26, 2015 10:43:00 GMT -5
Air-roo comes off as the most racist person in this thread to be honest.
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Post by bartman2001 on Apr 26, 2015 13:14:02 GMT -5
I admit I'm a racist I'm guilty for Slavery, and all the horrific things that happened since then thru the civil rights clashes in the 1960's up thru now because white people did them and since I'm white, even though I've took not part in any of it, I must be guilty of it and a horrible person. According to Air-Roo's collectivized guilt theory When you think about it that's the same premise racism is based on. For example white people are guilty of everything because of every bad thing another white person has done or black people are bad, poor, and commit crimes because of their skin color.
Random thoughts:
Tomass above post in indeed correct.
One persons successes are not done at the expense of another.
It's a crock of shit when someone yells at you for refusing to except unearned guilt.
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